What ENTITLEMENT between people means?
I guess it's no surprise when my first recollection here was a beginning
observation regarding how people are unconsciously always viewing and
acting in life TO LOOK GOOD. Imagine the permutations on that formula. I
don't know that I understand what exactly you meant by superior. IS it
his thinking he's superior when he's not, claiming he's superior, acting
superior, a superior idiot, LOL - It all seems to reflect our need to
LOOK GOOD, by some personal standard mostly a legacy of the culture we
grew up in.
But I mean it's one of those things that need an anchor or at least
anecdotal reference for them to really work in communicating or
relating, for that matter.
Don't forget that in any conflict we have with another, a portion of our
commuication is projection, and it is precisely this portion of our
communication which is the source of our feeling conflicted at that
moment.
The entire story though, if I get you well enough, is what? A
displeasure with the way men cope with you as a female? Your drawing a
picture which has been drawn over and over throughout time. It does mean
anything except that the LINES OF YOUR COMMUNICATION are shewed. The
rest your making up about it. The question I think trumps this one is
how do these LINES become skewed, which to me seems like a question
about a blindness we have or something we're seemingly unaware of.
Given that I don't have a quick answer for that I'll stop here, except
to say that one of the LINES that I have found skewing from time to time
and at least enough times that the point of lapse became clear to a
degree that I can report it fair and succinctly as HUMOR. We often lose
our humor, forget about it's value, but basically stop using it when it
is really essential to our communication with others being fulfilling,
revealing, supporting, encouraging, empowering, and well-received.
I definitely used to take myself a little bit to seriously. It does help
to laugh at oneself. If I think of anymore I'll add them...
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